Satisfaction is having Admiration... and it's the best.
Many people live frustrated without being able to experience true satisfaction. It is only the ability to ADMIRE, that brings true satisfaction and fulfilment to a man. To admire himeself, and those like him.
I have always had a secret and shy passion for shirts and ties. I find this man very admirable because he is dressed the right way and has sensitivity, intelligence and justice. This makes me feel satisfied inside my solar plexus.
Unfortunately I am physically disabled, but this doesn't change the type of man I am. I get frustrated because people think disability does change who somebody is.
I am quite shy also so people don't realise.
Heart and mind and appearance - all are important, not only one or two.
I particularly like how this man looks.
The video shows this man to be a grown-up; not wallowing in any dregs of immaturity.
He is smart, his shirt and tie looks exactly right. He wants to wear it, it is quite obvious. He has the right tightness and discipline to the collar, the man has chosen a proper looking collar that molds to the shape of his neck, he stands upright and erect and chooses to wear an adequately contrasting and very pretty matching tie. He comes across with a mature sense of self-discipline and respect. He has narrow shoulders which further emphasize how radical and smart his normal shirt-and-tie dress sense for him, is. He is not oblivious to his appearance for any moment but relishes focusing on it and how it disciplines his behavior. I also admire how the man has shaved his neck to frame his collar and tie, purposefully paying homage to and showing maximum respect to his collar and tie, and drawing maximum attention to how radically smart and uncomfortable it is as he wants himself and his face - who he is, to draw full attention to the fact that he knows that wearing a shirt and tie is radical, smart, proper and correct. He wants to exude smartness and discipline, not just be wearing something that makes him appear to be smart. It is great that the collar and tie appears at the most noticable and obvious part of a mans body, both to himself and others. (This promotes a proper attitude to it and one of not hiding behind it.) You can't dress like this and easily not be not fanatical enough about it - just as it has been so designed.
The best would be for this man to start to maintain this image every single day and make it a lifestyle. It requires determination and commitment to do this.
He looks quite uncomfortable being a sensitive man, but he knows it is right and is good for him. I think a man like this is not overdressed. It is just a normal every day way to dress, 7 days a week from 7am until midnight. Including at the weekends and in the summer.
He's a really nice, attractive guy and I hope he enjoys the discipline and discomfort of maintaining the normal man shirt and tie standard. And all the male benefits that come with it. See footnote.
This is not work-wear or special occasion wear, it is just normal adaquate for-every day, the proper way for a man to dress. I bet if he changed this image it would have a derogatory effect on his manner and attitudes. It is all about DISCIPLINE and maintaining it- what men like this need, to just be properly dressed. Why? Because there is a cost involved and requires a willing choice to do so, conform to, and live accordingly. I don't think the collar should ever be loosened, but the sleeves can be rolled up to do more hands-on tasks or when it's hot, in Australia.
I admire this man and have a feeling of satisfaction in my solar plexus with this man's video, as he is intelligent, smart, just, disciplined and sensitive. Disabled people like myself look up to someone like this.
Heart and Show - Clothes alone do not make the man, what he is like does, but how he should dress is also an important PART of what he is like.
I like many people who are not like this man, but this man I really admire for being a man who understands the importance for normal guys to wear a shirt and tie, for the right reasons.
When a young boy starts to wear a tie consistently for the right reasons, he starts making the transition from being a child to a grown man.
Footnote: What is discipline and why have it?
My answer is:
Well apart from sounding like a nice word (men feel somethng when you tell them about it), is that in ENABLES men to do things that are enjoyable and fulfilling that they would otherwise not be able to do without it. Even things to do with male make-up and chemistry) ... Who wants to be a man and not enjoy it? AND TO BE ABLE TO ENJOY A HIGHER QUALITY OF MALE EXISTENCE AS A MAN THAN WOULD OTHERWISE BE POSSIBLE!!!!
In other words, IT'S ENABLING.
Wouldn't it be nice if all regular men like this man dressed like this all the time, every day, all day and in the evenings and weekends and holidays. Wouldn't that be something! It is good discipline and self-respect and self-value for men. It's difficult to maintain being always like this, which is what is required for it to work.
You probably think the following man is German:
That is not German behaviour! It's much different, believe me! (he does speak German though)
